Your partner cannot carry all your infinite longing

The human desire to love and be loved seems boundless, but every person is limited. Even a good marriage goes through tiredness, mistakes, and moments when the other cannot give you all you expected. When you turn your partner into the total source of identity, peace, and meaning, love becomes demand. Any limit seems like betrayal. Loving God above all does not reduce human love: it removes a burden it could never bear. Your partner is called to accompany you, not to take the place of God. From there you can love them as a real person, be grateful for what they give, and stop punishing them for not being infinite.