How to know if someone is right for you

Attraction can be strong, but it is not enough to know if a relationship suits you. The important thing is to look at its fruits: if it brings order, gives you peace, and helps you grow. Dating is not just having a good time together. It is also learning to love truly and discovering if that relationship brings you closer to a good life. Beyond what you feel, observe the fruits: respect, peace, responsibility, freedom, and ability to grow together. Important decisions need time and a realistic look.