God as the guide of the relationship

In a relationship there are emotions, desires, fears, and plans. That is why more than impulse is needed to discern well. Seeking God does not remove personal responsibility. It enlightens it. Asking for light helps look at the relationship with more truth, freedom, and peace. Praying for the relationship helps view it with less self-deception. Placing it before God lets you ask if it helps you love better, grow in freedom, and walk toward a true good.