Relationships

Direction in the relationship

If you do not know where you are going, it is easy to get lost.

A relationship without direction can keep going out of habit, emotion, or fear of speaking clearly. But love needs direction to grow. Dating is meant for discerning and building. Always avoiding conversations about the future may be a sign that something important is being overlooked. Talking about direction does not spoil spontaneity. It prevents a relationship from drifting along on inertia and helps you know if both of you are walking sincerely toward a shared project.

Key idea

Love needs direction.

Your challenge for this idea

Talk about the future without avoiding it. Do so calmly and truthfully.