To be forgiven you must name it
Asking for absolution without telling the truth is like wanting to heal without showing the wound.
The account of St. Giles presents a man full of remorse who wanted to receive forgiveness without confessing his sin because of the shame he felt. He was seeking relief, but was still protecting his secret.
Sometimes we do something similar: we speak in generalities, soften what took place, or tell only the part that makes us look better. Without concrete truth, confession turns into a detour and the wound continues ruling from the shadows. God does not ask you to name the sin to humiliate you, but to liberate you from the lie. Saying it with simplicity breaks the isolation and allows you to receive a forgiveness that touches reality.
Key idea
Mercy heals whatever you dare to place with truth before God.
Your challenge for this idea
If you are going to confession, write down with clarity beforehand what is hardest for you to name.
BASED ON
Saint Giles →