Those who also correct themselves correct better

When you forget your own struggle, the other person's mistake seems simple to solve: it would be enough if they listened, made an effort, or stopped making excuses. Correction becomes impatient. Whoever corrects themselves knows the time, the relapses, and the help that real change requires. That is why they can be clear without treating the other person as an obvious case. They propose a step and offer support. They also examine their own share in the conflict. Before speaking, they ask whether their example contradicts what they demand and whether their tone seeks to help or vent irritation. Moral authority is not born from being flawless, but from living under the same truth you propose.