Letting yourself be corrected takes courage

It is easy to see other people's flaws and hard to see your own: no one sees themselves clearly. That is why having someone who cares about you point out a fault is a favor, even if it stings. "The good person is glad to be corrected; the proud person cannot stand it," an ancient writer said. The natural reaction is to defend yourself: giving explanations, making excuses, getting offended. It is hard to keep quiet and listen. But swallowing your pride for a moment and thinking "they might be right" is one of the most mature things there is. That shows what you are made of. This does not mean accepting any harsh criticism. But when the warning comes from someone who appreciates you and seeks your good, be grateful for it instead of arguing. Whoever accepts correction grows; whoever closes up stays where they are.