Knowing how to argue well
The problem is not always having an argument, but how you argue.
Differences are a normal part of any real relationship. What destroys is not having problems, but turning every disagreement into a contest of pride.
Arguing well requires genuine humility: listening, seeking to understand, and wanting to reach the truth, not just to win. That also looks after love.
Arguing well does not mean avoiding every single difference. It means speaking without humiliating, listening before answering, and seeking a solution instead of collecting victories.
Key idea
Arguing well can strengthen the relationship.
Your challenge for this idea
In your next difference, listen before responding. Do not just seek to win.