How to correct without humiliating

Correction can build up or wound depending on how it is delivered. If you humiliate, you may get temporary compliance, but you lose trust. Correcting well requires respect, composure, and a sense of timing. Truth helps most when spoken with charity and a sincere desire for the other's good. Teaching others is not about clearing away every difficulty for them, but about helping them grow in freedom. Affection and standards can go hand in hand when they seek their genuine good.