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Doing good out of love changes duty

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The same action can feel like an invoice or become a free response.

Fulfilling a duty out of fear of reproach can be a first step. But if your entire moral life remains there, every rule weighs like surveillance and you seek relief as soon as no one is looking. Love discovers whom the action serves. You arrive on time because you respect other people's time; you tell the truth because you want a real relationship; you pray because you respond to a friendship. Duty remains, but it acquires a face. You will not always feel that motive with intensity. You can recall it and choose it even if it costs you. Little by little, fulfillment stops being an external negotiation and forms a will more united to the good. You do the same thing, but you are no longer exactly the same while doing it.

Key idea

A duty becomes freer when made one's own by recognizing and choosing the good and the persons it serves.

Your challenge for this idea

Before fulfilling an obligation today, name the person or the good that you want to care for through it.

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