Do not decide for the sick without them

Sometimes a family avoids speaking about the Anointing of the Sick because they fear alarming someone who is frail. The intention may be good, but deciding behind their back can also leave them without a consolation they desire and without the opportunity to express how they want to live that moment. The Anointing does not announce that everything is over. It is a sacrament for whoever is going through serious illness or very frail old age: it offers peace, fortitude, and the closeness of Christ. Asking for it in time allows receiving it consciously and participating, instead of turning the sick person into a spectator. Accompanying well requires tact and truth. Listen before assuming, ask what human and spiritual support they desire, and facilitate a visit with a priest if they ask for it. Caring is also respecting the interior freedom of whoever depends on you.