Christ at the center of the relationship

If Christ is left outside the relationship, love is easily measured only by tastes, emotions, or personal plans. A higher reference is missing. Putting him at the center does not mean making everything weird or forced. It means letting his way of loving order the relationship: self-giving, truth, purity, and forgiveness. Putting him at the center does not make the relationship strange. It helps seek a love that is more patient, clean, and capable of forgiving, serving, and telling the truth.