Being categorical closes doors to friendship

In a group conversation you declare that "anyone who does that is..." or that a certain experience always means the same thing. Perhaps you do not know that a friend is personally affected by the subject. That bluntness warns them that speaking will carry a price. To avoid being judged, they remain silent and you interpret that silence as agreement. The relationship loses an opportunity for truth. Speaking with nuances does not force you to give up convictions. You can explain reasons, distinguish actions from persons, and leave room for circumstances you do not yet know. Asking before classifying creates safety for personal confidence and also improves your judgment. Friendship needs a firm word when appropriate, but never one so closed that the reality of a friend can no longer enter.